Interruptions: An Experiment

by DJ Waldow on July 21, 2010

I’m really good at multi-tasking, if I do say so myself.

I’ve been known to brag about this “skill” to my family, friends, and anyone who will listen. My mom has been telling me for years that multi-tasking is actually not really that great from a production standpoint. She’s my mom which means I hear everything that she says, but don’t always follow her advice – until now.

My mom was right.

Multi-tasking Is All About Interruptions.

If you are like me, you have 42 applications, browser tabs, and stickies all running at once. You have IM flashing, Twitter beeping with new updates, your phone buzzing with calls and text messages, and your email inbox overflowing. You often read an article while replying to a tweet, answer an email while on a conference call, IM with friends/co-workers while writing a blog post. You get the picture.

I used to think I was being efficient. I used to think I was getting a lot of work done. I used to think that this was the only way to keep my head above water.

Here’s the rub. It doesn’t work. It doesn’t scale. It doesn’t help ship (Seth Godin-ism). What happens is that I’m giving 1/2 or 1/4 or 1/10 of my attention to one task. The problem is that sometimes less that 100% focus will suffice; however, most of the time, 50% or less doesn’t cut it. In order to really deliver a killer product (or answer, or service, or feedback), I need to dedicate close to 100% of my focus. If I’m in the middle of building a presentation and an IM pops up, it takes time to process – Do I reply right away? Ignore it? Even if I choose to ignore, it takes time. Time to read. Time to process. Time to decide how or if to respond. Time to re-focus on the original task. Same goes with all channels. They are all interruptions.

Interruptions.

Interruptions: An Experiment.

I’ve been contemplating this one for some time now. Part of the catch of living a life as a (good) multi-tasker is that sometimes you are so busy multi-tasking that you don’t take time to create or execute on an actual plan. There is always something or someone else demanding your attention. The thought of turning off all distractions to actually *create* that plan – well – it just feels odd. It goes against much of the always on, always available life I try to live.

Until now.

My plan is to focus on batching my time, my channels, my efforts. This is certainly a work in progress, an experiment of sorts. My first stab at “the plan” is as follows:

Email

I’m learning that it’s okay to not check email every second. In fact, it’s probably healthy. If you live in your inbox, reply to every email – often within minutes of receiving it – you are setting expectations that will ultimately be tough to fulfill. Also, not all emails are created equal – some are FYI and don’t require a reply. Some have 14 others copied and have no real call to action. Also, I have this terrible habit or replying to nearly every email. I’ve been in a bit more of a delete/archive mode lately, but it’s still and issue. One of the beauties of gmail is that the email lives on (via archive) indefinitely. I can usually find an old email fairly quickly, if needed.

My plan – Starting today I’ll be checking email in chunks, at set times during the day. Lauren Vargas told me about this months ago. I think she called it the Dr Pepper method (that’s the best link I could find). I heard her, but never actually implemented her suggestions. I’ll spend an hour or so in email 3x per day. The hours I’ll be there may vary, but for the most part I’m thinking about morning, lunch, and late afternoon. I’ll continue to reply to only those emails where I can add value. I’ll delete and archive often.

Twitter

This is the one that is killing me. Killing. I’m a huge advocate for the power of Twitter to discover new friends, create new relationships, foster/grow existing relationships, share personal and (valuable) business/industry information, build trust and credibility, and even find new business. However, it’s a huge interruptor. Huge. Every time I get the Tweetdeck notification, I stop, click, read and often get sucked down a rabbit hole.

My plan – Similar to email, I’ll take “Twitter breaks” where I’ll bounce in, look around, listen, learn, engage, connect, post, and jump back out. The time I spend there will be more strategic – still authentic, but more focused.

IM

My fellow Blue Sky Factory co-worker, Chris Penn, has this one nailed. He leaves IM up most of the day but is very diligent about updating his “away” message. He even has an auto-reply IM that sets proper expectations. It reads – “BSFDND: Please email and do not IM unless you are a BSF employee. Thanks!”

My plan – Set up something similar to Chris. Also, I’ll remind folks that if it’s not something urgent, email will be best. I’ll also selectively turn IM off during the day. Let’s see how that one works.

Skype

For the most part, I only fire up Skype if I am expecting a call or if someone IMs me and requests to take the conversation to Skype. This one has not been a huge interrupter for me unless I have it on and forget.

My plan – Continue business as is. This one is working! Simple.

Text and Phone

Part of my job requires me to answer phone calls. The time suck for me is that I’m a talker. I love chatting. Also, like email, I have this compulsive nature of answering every single text and nearly always answering the phone (unless I’m changing a diaper or in the middle of a conversation with someone else).

My plan – Let the FYI-only texts go unanswered and some calls go to VM. If it’s mission critical, they’ll leave a VM, right?

Facebook, LinkedIn, Forums

As Director of Community at Blue Sky Factory, maintaining, growing, and participating in social media channels is an important part of my day. However, they can’t take up my entire day. I think I do a pretty good job at bouncing in and out of places like Facebook (updating wall, replying to comments), LinkedIn (answering questions), and forums (replying to threads). The issue is that I jump in and out randomly.

My plan – Create dedicated time to spend in each channel. I don’t think it will take more than about an hour or so per day. If I can focus, I believe my answers will be more thought out and valuable.

Blogs & Articles

As a guy who speaks to clients, prospects, fans and marketers in general all day long about email marketing and social media, it’s imperative that I’m up-to-date on the latest and greatest. That being said, most of the information is not important right now. Blog posts and articles will be there in an hour, later in the day, tomorrow, next week, etc. The reason I sometimes have upwards of 38 Google Chrome (or Firefox) tabs open at once is I want to read it all.

My plan – Take “reading breaks.” During these set times (possibly first thing in the morning, over coffee), I’ll consume blog posts and article and comment as necessary and appropriate. I will pick a handful to share, similar to Chris Penn’s #the5 and move on. New posts and articles that come in during my non-reading hours will wait until the next break. Also, I’m going to try hard to not read it all. Some days, “delete all” will have to suffice.

Offline

This is an area I’ve struggled with for years. Turning it off. Shutting down. Focusing on life outside of the interwebs. It’s become a bit easier since the arrival of Eva, but I still am not great. Family time is critical. Time away from the keyboard and technology is healthy. Part of my refocus is going to include the offline. I need to spend more off-work time with my wife and baby girl.

My plan – I’m often the parent who picks Eva up from daycare in the late afternoon. Once I pick her up, I’ll be offline until the following morning. Similar concept on the weekends. With proper implementation of the above, folks will call or text me if there is an urgent matter. This is going to be the toughest one for me to sustain, but likely the most critical. Family is #1. Bottom line.

Are You Crazy?

So. I know what you are thinking. “DJ! You are such an idealist. There is no way you can actually do this consistently.” My first answer is, “You are right!” I am an idealist. I always have been. I’m becoming a bit more of a realist as I enter the second half of my 30s, but I’m still an idealist. I realize that I may not be able to follow all of these “rules” 100% of the time, but I believe if you don’t set some goals up, write them down, and attempt to stick with them you’ll never have a chance. I’m giving myself a chance in this “Interruption Experiment.”

Who is brave enough to join me on this journey?

DJ Waldow
@djwaldow

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autoroute à email: Flickr biscotteI think about email and email marketing very differently than the average person.

Considering that I work at Blue Sky Factory, an email marketing company, I guess this makes sense. I write a lot on the corporate blog about “email marketing best practices.” When an email lands in my inbox, my mind immediately starts working. I critique the full anatomy of the message, from the from name and subject line to the unsubscribe link and footer. I look at the copy, the call to action, the content above the fold. I tear it apart.

However, with all of these marketing emails that I review, there are hundreds of other personal and business emails that “cross my desk” every single day. (Note: I rarely, if ever, work at a “desk” … unless you count my lap or the kitchen table). I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how individuals can take lessons learned from email marketers and apply them to their every day use of email. To be clear, I am not talking about email marketing – defined as mass emails typically sent from a person/company to prospects or customers. Instead, I’m referring to that email your co-worker sends or the message from your friend or family member.

The following is what I’ll call the Smart Person’s Guide To Email, a series of 14 “Dos” and “Don’ts” intended to make email more efficient, effective, and manageable for both the sender and receiver.

Ready?

1. From Name

Ensure that the you’ve set up the proper from name. In other words, if your name is “DJ Waldow” be sure that the from name reads “DJ Waldow”, not “Waldow, DJ” or “djwaldow” or “DJWaldow”.  Sometimes, if you don’t define a from name, the email client will pull your username. If you are still using “bigboy1234@hotmail.com” from your college days, it’s time to change it. If you want folks to recognize who the email is from, be sure you use the name you prefer to called, that one that is recognizable.

2. Subject Line

Think about the words you choose for the subject line. Subjects like, “here you go” or “attached” don’t really provide much value for the recipient. Do not craft your entire email in the subject line. For example, subject lines like, “Hey Bob. Just wanted you to know that I received the TPS reports and all looks great. Thanks so much for sending.” … just don’t work. Besides the fact that they get cut off in your email client, they just look like crap.

3. Calls to Action

Do not use words or phrases like, “we should look into this”. My co-worker, Amy Garland, reminds me of this one all the time when she says, “Who is we?” Also, if an email does not require a reply, say so with a short “No need to reply.” or “This is just an FYI.”

4. Assign Responsibility

Building on #3: Calls to Action, be sure that if you are asking for help or feedback and are sending your email to multiple recipients, clearly call out what you need from each person. For example. “Bob: Please send over the updated image.” or “Sue: I’d appreciate it if you could provide feedback on X.” or “All: Please review entire attached TPS report and send back thoughts on ways to tweak.”

5. Set Expectations and Timeframes

If your email is asking folks to do something, provide proper expectations and timeframe. In other words, “Jim: I’m hoping to have this wrapped up by the end of week. Please send all feedback to me by EOD (end of day) Thursday. If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume you are okay with the current format.”

6. Reply All

Sometimes it makes sense to reply all – sometimes. However, if the conversation goes off on a tangent between a few individuals on the email thread, create a new email and carry on the discussion there.

7. Search

Consider that your email will be searched by the recipient at some point in the future. Funky subject lines, cryptic copy, and vague calls to action make the email harder to find later on.

8. Proper Medium

Do not send an email when a text message or phone call would be the better channel. Chris Brogan blogged about this, Communication Tools and Levels of Interruption. I see it happen too often when someone sends an email and 30 min later they ask if you’ve received it yet. My take is that if it’s that important, text, IM or call.

9. Save Time

If you find yourself using the same sentences, phrases, terms, signatures, etc etc over and over, consider using a software like TextExpander (I think there is a non-Mac version too). This will allow you to create shortcuts to those often-used snippets, thus saving you time.

10. Simplify

Most email clients have shortcut keys and widgets that you can install. Use them! For example, Gmail Labs allows you to “Send & Archive” all in one step, as opposed to send, then archive. See #9: Save Time.

11. Checks and Balances

As mentioned above, leverage some of the features in your email client. Another cool one – one that’s saved me on numerous occasions – is Gmail Labs “Cancel Send” option. You can set the timing on this one – 5, 10 or 20 seconds (mine is set at 10). We’ve all sent that email and 3 seconds later thought (or said aloud), “Oops. That went to the wrong person.” OR “Crap. I forgot to include the attachment.” (Actually, Gmail Labs also has the “Forgot attachment” feature). Use ‘em!

12. Send Yourself Emails

Every time a friend or colleague moves, I send myself an email with their new address. The subject line includes their full name and the word address. Then, when I need to send them a letter/thank-you note, I can search for their address in seconds. See #7: Search.

13. Spelling and Grammar Matter

Expect that your email will be shared with others. Be careful to ensure proper spelling and grammar throughout your email. I’m not suggesting that it is 100% accurate; however, the message you are sending may live on indefinitely. Make you high school English teacher proud.

14. Choose Your Words (& Recipients) Carefully

Similar to #13: Spelling and Grammar, it’s safe to assume that your “innocent” email may sometime land in “enemy” hands or just a person that you didn’t want to actually read it. Careful! Just like on the Internet, don’t write anything in an email that you wouldn’t want anyone else in the world to read. We’ve all been there before – sent that NSFW (Not Safe For Work) email to the “wrong” Bill. Also, once your email leaves your outbox, the recipient can do with it as they please.

So there you have it. My version of the Smart Person’s Guide To Email: 14 Email Dos and Don’ts.

Do you agree with my list of 14? What would you add? Hmmm…I smell the start of an eBook!

Image: Flickr biscotte

DJ Waldow
@djwaldow

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